A story of love questioned by the supernatural:I have dated my fiancé for seven years now, and my pastor says he is the man God wants me to marry
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Pastor cautions 28 year old female to quit seven years
relationship, says God revealed Fiancé is not her husband to be.
Readers discretion advised as this is one emotional story
that is deeply rooted in love, controversially provocative and is capable of
throwing your relationship in great doubts and possibly trigger scaring
imaginative thoughts.
28yr old Fatima Bashir, presently an undergraduate in one of
Nigeria’s leading Federal University, an indigene of Bida local government
area, Niger State, Nigeria.
Fatima is traumatically disturbed shortly after her
Pastor revealed to her that her Fiancé whom she had been dating for seven full blown years is God’s choice for her. Her story goes thus “ I met my Fiancé 8yr ago during my high school days, we started out well as friends on a platonic ground and over time the natural likeness for each other culminated into love songs and we became love birds.
Pastor revealed to her that her Fiancé whom she had been dating for seven full blown years is God’s choice for her. Her story goes thus “ I met my Fiancé 8yr ago during my high school days, we started out well as friends on a platonic ground and over time the natural likeness for each other culminated into love songs and we became love birds.
Consequently, we became very close, even closer than family
members. I love him so much and I’d always wished to get married to him, 7yrs
into the relationship is not a joke. And I’ve committed a larger part of me
into this relationship, both body and soul and cannot in the twinkle of an eye
watch it slip off my hands.
During the past years we have been together, we shared a lot
of ups and down individually and collectively, though we had a great deal of
quarrels, misunderstanding but fighting was never part of us. He had a more
gentle approach to issues and would rather opt for a dialogue than resulting
into violence or anything like that.
There were a thousand things or qualities about my Fiancé
that pleased me , far from physical looks and qualities, he had this human
attributes that kept him very close to me heart, sometimes I bet to say that
there can be none like him on Planet on Earth. Sometimes when we have issues
either of us would begin to push for a breakup which was just a way of making
an unrealistic threat so as to avoid or forestall similar acts from either of
us. But at the end of the day, we are sure to always calm our nerves and
understand our differences even more.
Everyone in my family
knows him, He’s so lovable, down to earth, caring and homely. These qualities
in him kept me glued to him over the years. But i disliked his temperament, he
could be so quick to anger and to a fault but as well quick to say; Baby I’m sorry, please forgive me whenever he
is at fault. And he is a very jealous person, at a time I lost most of my male
friends as a result of his jealous and suspecting character, He assumed every
male friend that comes around me is a back door affair. And I disliked that
with so much energy and passion, but each time I spoke to him about been
jealous over nothing or rather unnecessarily, he would quickly apologize and
promise never to continue in such habit. But he became even more jealous as the
day goes by.
But amidst all his flaws, I loved him more and my love over
him grew like wildfire. I am poise with serious confusion in my heart right
now, whether to obey the instruction of the man God as he had told me in clear terms
to quit the relationship with immediate effect, or to give time a chance to
make the decision? I sincerely do not know how to handle it anymore.
Now, over to you EDreaders, what do you think Fatima should
do as her emotional life has been complicated by the revelation of Her Pastor
and how would you handle the situation if you were in her shoes? Knowing very well
that matters relating to love can be so difficult to handle or even discern discern.
So pathetic
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